Choosing A Partner For Marriage
What we pay attention to when choosing a partner for marriage? The feelings, the desire for a man to his personal qualities and financial situation. Bobby Sharma Bluestone can provide more clarity in the matter. Generally decided to allocate two basic approaches to family planning: a marriage of love and marriages of convenience. Which of these marriages is better – it's hard to say. And there is no statistics on that, what marriage is stronger. But in practice it turns out that the marriage will be stronger if you found out before the wedding, how much you are compatible. Compatibility means unity or similarity in many areas of life. This is not necessarily the views of the spouses in all matters should be the same or a previous life must be like, but when the differences between men and women too much, the conflicts and quarrels make it impossible to create harmony in their relationships. On land there are no two identical people.
Therefore, there is no pair, in which husband and wife would be 100% compatible. However, the more in common between you physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual spheres, the better you will understand each other, the more fruitful will be your relationship. Therefore, when choosing a partner for marriage, first of all pay note – Educating parents in the family: Children can not help "soak up" style of relationship between father and mother, even to the smallest detail, to the tone of voice. And unknowingly taking a sample of this style of behavior, he and his family will be stick with it, no matter what partner came from another family that had its own script. Make sure that your future partner in marriage share your priorities in life are equally looking at the relationships within the family.
Tags: Family Psychology, home and family